The only virtue-based Bible study that helps you discern whether you’re being invited forward… or tempted toward an extreme.
“Lord, tell me what to do and I’ll do it. But please tell me.”
You love Jesus. You want to grow. You want to do the right thing.
If you’ve ever quietly wondered…
Am I being patient… or am I avoiding a hard conversation?
Is this surrender… or am I shrinking?
Am I trusting God… or being passive?
Am I being loving… or enabling?
Am I being disciplined… or harsh with myself?
Should I speak up… or stay quiet?
Then this is for you.
You don’t need more voices.
You need a faithful filter.
Needing Reassurance doesn't mean we lack faithThe women inside Rising Tide Fellowship aren’t rebellious.
We aren’t careless.
We aren’t trying to do less.
We care deeply about obedience.
We just don’t want to misapply Scripture or swing too far in one direction.
This Bible study helps you discern:
What’s conviction
What’s accusation
What’s wisdom
What’s excess
So you can respond to God with steadiness instead of second-guessing.
Reassurance, Peace, Holiness,
Reassurance, Peace, Holiness,
Meet Your Host
Regan Clement
For years, I was the kind of woman everyone loves to have around.
Available. Helpful. The one who always said yes.
It looked holy. People even praised it as holy.
But inside, I was treating other people’s desires like my life’s assignment.
By age 30, I had stage 3 cancer. And in that season, God made something clear: His voice had to become louder than the voices of others, or I was going to keep getting sick.
So I went all in. I went on retreats, worked with a Christian therapist who integrated deliverance, and devoted myself to learning discernment, how God speaks, how the enemy accuses, and how to test what was truly from the Lord. I practiced Lectio Divina, leaned into the Ignatian tradition, and studied and prayed because I needed clarity to survive.
Then I started obeying what I believed God was asking of me, and I set boundaries to protect it. Some people celebrated it. Others pushed back hard, and the criticism didn’t just feel personal, it sounded spiritual.
That’s when I went deeper into virtue, because I needed to know what compassion actually is, how obedience differs from servility, and how real virtue gets distorted into two vices.
And I realized something that changed everything: even in Christian circles, virtue words get misused constantly. We slap holy labels on fear, control, avoidance, and people-pleasing and call it goodness.
That’s why the Virtue Finder Quiz and Bible Study exist.
To help you discern clearly, stand firm without getting ugly, and walk in God’s will without guilt.
what women are sensing after the quiz
“Turn the other cheek” has always spoken to me, but I’ve realized I was using it to avoid confrontation I needed to have.
The part about peace convicted me to pray about it, and God invited me into taking more action instead of needing permission to start anything.
I am a doer. Always have been. I sometimes feel resentful toward my family when they don’t do as much. This showed me to shift some of the energy I put into my TO DO list into being present to my family. I’d rather be working, but I know this is right.
The part about procrastination and avoidance really spoke to me. I wrote in my journal to focus on messages of courage and follow through.
When you’ve discerned well, you can stop crumbling under criticism
You can calmly say:
“I’ve prayed about this.”
“I’ve examined this.”
“I’m at peace.”
Not defensive, reactive, or scrambling.
Steady.
This study strengthens your ability to:
Hold boundaries without guilt
Rest without shame
Act without panic
Endure misunderstanding without collapsing
What Makes This One-of-a-Kind
No one is teaching the nuance of our Faith.
Most Bible Studies are telling you it’s either virtue or vice.
Example: Obedience or rebellion.
But obedience sits between two opposite vices— servility and rebellion.
This makes a huge difference in how you apply Scripture to your life.
The Virtue Finder Bible Study gives you:
A structured lens
Scripture in context
Clear markers of deficiency, excess, and virtue
A way to test your motivations without shame
